pulling my hair out

[4HisGlory]

I don't know what else to do! ds (2 1/2) won't stop pulling over his toy sorter during nap time. We spank him, make him help us clean it up and punish him when he won't. we have tried spanking, time outs, taking toys away and nothing changes this behavior. He also has began ripping a part his vaneshian (sp) blinds. this morning I found him playing with his curtain rod in his bed and yesterday he broke the spinny thing to open/close the blinds. He has totally broke most of it. grrrrr. I just don't know what to do about this. I told my dh maybe we should just ignore his toy dumping during the nap since he just wants us to go in there and doesn't care about the spanking he gets. any suggestion?