I've been researching midwives more to find out what all they're qualified to do, and I'm pretty excited about the idea! I am waiting for an e-mail back from my primary care dr. to see if she can do my preconception visit sooner, and then if she can't, I'll see the OB in July and ask about using a midwife for all of my prenatal visits from that point on.
I need to check with a doctor about a congenital heart defect I have (if it will affect anything), and I have a history of fainting, so I've got to see a doc before we can start TTC.
I think THIS wait is hard... Waiting to find out if we have conceived is going to be SO HARD! lol
Thanks again for sharing your experiences and wisdom! Especially appreciate the midwife recommendation.

I'm such a newb at this, I still haven't figured out what all my options are. lol Thanks again!