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JeanineAnne
04-14-2008, 01:50 PM
So, I read this in our local paper yesterday and saw it this morning on foxnews.com :(
*sigh* I honestly cannot believe the behavior of our society [flagsurrender]
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,351171,00.html

Trading Nude Photos Via Mobile Phone Now Part of Teen Dating, Experts Say
Monday , April 14, 2008



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COLUMBUS, Ohio —

Forget about passing notes in study hall; some teens are now using their cell phones to flirt and send nude pictures of themselves.

The instant text, picture and video messages have become part of some teens' courtship behavior, police and school officials said.

The messages often spread quickly and sometimes find their way to public Web sites.

"I've seen everything from your basic striptease to sexual acts being performed," said Reynoldsburg police Detective Brian Marvin, a member of the FBI Cyber Crime Task Force of Central Ohio. "You name it, they will do it at their home under this perceived anonymity."

Westerville Central High School senior Jerome Ray said he's received such unsolicited messages, including one from a classmate while he was sitting with his girlfriend.

"A lot more girls are aggressive," said Ray, 18. "Some girls are crazy and they are putting themselves out there."

Candice Kelsey, a teacher from California, said some teenage girls think they have to be provocative to get boys' attention. As a result, they will send photos they hope their parents never see.

"This happens a lot," said Kelsey, author of Generation MySpace: Helping Your Teen Survive Online Adolescence. "It crosses every racial socio-economic group. Christian kids are doing it. Jewish kids are doing it."

Male teens are also doing it.

For instance, a central Ohio high school teen made a sexual cell phone video of himself and sent it to female classmates. One of the girls forward the Westerville South High School's video to at least 30 other people.

A study last year found teens are placing more of an emphasis on image and fame than in the past. Jean Twenge, a psychology professor at San Diego State University who studies young people's trends, found that teens are more confident and assertive than ever before.

"Adolescents are not known for thinking things through — that's a generational constant," she said. "Now, with the technology that is out there, instead of taking a picture and passing it around the classroom, it's online, which is a whole different ball game. (Teens) don't see it that way."

Mark Raiff, a principal at Columbus' Olentangy Liberty High School, said some of his students and their cell phones have caused trouble.

"They don't see anything wrong with it," he said. "It leaves me speechless."

BlessedMommy
04-14-2008, 02:04 PM
WOW. :shock: Looks like the Bible is being fulfilled! Come soon, Lord Jesus!

Ren
04-14-2008, 05:13 PM
gut wrenching and heart breaking. They really don't have any idea how harmful it is to themselves and others. I just don't know what to say other than it makes me really sad. It makes me want to keep Emme from as much of this nom-sense as possible. She's so sweet and I so want to see her reach her potencial rather than get mired in this kind of trapping. The article said teens are more confident? This isn't confident behaviour infact it's just the opposite, it's a total lack of confidence screaming for help from someone who cares. *weep* -ren

JeanineAnne
04-14-2008, 05:57 PM
I'm not sure if its overconfidence or lack of confidence but it certainly is a cry for attention. The best gift we can give our children is our time, love, and attention.

~Tara~
04-14-2008, 06:30 PM
I really wish I could say that I find this shocking and surprising. But I don't. At all.

So sad. :(

stephwhiz
04-14-2008, 06:59 PM
A 8th grader at a local middle school here sent a naked pic of her to someone this school year. The pic ended up circulating around and the girl was kicked off the cheerleading squad. I'm not sure what other form of discipline if any was taken. So sad!

Mo2b1d
04-14-2008, 09:27 PM
I really wish I could say that I find this shocking and surprising. But I don't. At all.

So sad. :(

I agree...I didn't find it surprising at all. It just seems more shocking because its more visible with digital cams and technology. Their hearts are still just as hurt though. They need Jesus to fill that hole that they're trying to fill up with something else.

Very sad.

kanaclark
04-14-2008, 11:04 PM
Yeah, it doesn't suprise me at all. Esp. after looking through my younger cousin's prom pictures. But suprise or not, it still hurts just the same, ya know.

Timmys mom
04-15-2008, 11:32 AM
Ugh! That is so sad. I'm not surprised that someone would do it, it's the fact that it's becoming a popular trend that gets me. :(

Godzgirl
04-15-2008, 01:21 PM
Ugh! That is so sad. I'm not surprised that someone would do it, it's the fact that it's becoming a popular trend that gets me. :(

Exactly!!!