Thanks ladies. The prayers worked. We had a wonderful relaxing and romantic week with no period! The only problem is I still don't have af! I have never gone this long before! I'm now on day 38! For the past week and a half I've felt like af is coming. I've been getting cramps and stacks of clear cm like when I ovulate. So much cm comes out that I keep thinking it's af but when I check it's not. We have had alot of unprotected bding as I thought I'd ovulated a few days after my last af as I had the pain and clear cm like I normally do when o. Hubby and i have been using nfp for the Past few months successfully. I've done 2 pt and both were bfn. I've booked in to see my dr in a week. I'm also peeing all the time but the dr tested my urine a few days ago and no uti. I had some slight spotting when af was due but then nothing!

well I saw the Dr yesterday and she said it’s likely I missed a period and then ovulated again in Vanuatu meaning I have about 13 chances of being pregnant! The urine test came up negative at the dr but she said it could be too early to tell (if I ovulated again in Vanuatu), or I could be 6 weeks pregnant and just not showing yet. I told her that I always show straight away with all my past pregnancies, to which she patted my arm and said, “Every pregnancy is different darling” (in a very kind excited voice). She wants me to wait another 2 weeks before having a blood test. If my period comes by then, then she said it could be just the change in stress levels (going from really stressed to really relaxed and lots of sleep etc in Vanuatu). So more waiting. I told her the last two weeks almost killed me with the waiting, she just said I would just have to hold on another 2 weeks. As I left she had her fingers crossed and wished me luck that I’m pregnant. Was nice to know though, that she wasn’t being like her hubby (my obstetrician) and telling me off for even thinking of wanting to have another child. He believes I’ll get safely through another pregnancy, but he thinks I shouldn’t have anymore kids when Hayley has CP.

O wow... yeah, 2 weeks is long enough!! Praying for patience (((hugs)))

I hate those waiting periods... praying for you gal, it can all be a little stressful and crazy hormone-wise!

Had my second dr appointment today. As my urine test came back neg again for pregnancy but I have now missed TWO periods and halfway to my third one, she sent me for a blood test today and an ultrasound in two and a half weeks (earliest I could get in :roll: ). My urine test did however show a bladder infection. So she's put me on antibiotics. She's also checking for menopause in the blood test just in case as most of the women in my family went through menopause at my age (34), however my blood test for menopause last year showed I should have a long time yet.
As I was leaving the dr today she did say that I have the pregnancy 'glow' (the third person this week to tell me that! :oops: ). I should get the blood test results later this arvo, so praying real hard for a positive!

Wow, praying for you girl!

Oh my, Kristy! That's quite the wild ride you've been on the last while!! I hope you find out one way or another what's up very soon!!

Blood test came up negative So will have to wait for the ultrasound to see what's going on. It was a qualitative test, so not as sensitive as a quantitative one, so maybe a small hope???

Praise God! I got the hormone test results back and I'm not going through menopause!!!!!!!! [cheer]
The doctor wants me to wait for the ultrasound in two weeks and then decide where to go from there. I'm now 8 1/2 weeks since AF.
AF where are you??????????
Still praying for that small hope that maybe I'm pregnant. In the meantime I'm going to try not to think about it and carry on with life...

bighug! I hope you get some solid answers soon Kristy!! Watching and praying!! :)

Glad it's not that (the big M).. I was worried it was. Hope they have an answer for you soon.

AF finally arrived a couple days ago. Was pretty painful and very heavy - but no clotting and feels nothing like a m/c. So I assume it's just kind of making up for the past 2 AFs I missed.
Couldn't believe hubby actually said he was really disapointed I wasn't pregnant! We have just bought a mini bus to get converted for Hayley's wheelchair, and hubby asked them to put THREE baby seat attachments in it! When I asked him, he replied with - "You never know how many we may end up having if God has his way".
So even though I was a bit disappointed I wasn't pregnant, I think maybe God used this opportunity to give hubby some thinking time about whether or not to try for more kids. [dance]

Its so exciting to see God opening up your dh up for more children :)

Its so exciting to see God opening up your dh up for more children :)

Ditto what she said! All things work together for good, right?!

Aww sorry you weren't pregnant but exciited God is working oh your dh :)