Overnight my kids have turned into little monsters. My parenting hasn't changed any but it's almost like the bigger my belly grows the more the kids try and get away with stuff. Since Sunday I have had both of them run away from me in the store, opposite directions at the same time of course, won't listen to a word I say, constantly running away from me, and today they cut their hair with my kitchen scissors while I was going to the bathroom.

I've been putting them in time out mostly. They have been fighting me when it comes to spanking, kicking and hitting at me, and with being pregnant I've tried to avoid it. I am thinking about doing a behavior chart and well as a chores chart. But I'm stumped and want to cry for the way that they are behaving. They are only doing it to me. I'm trying to do the best I can but it's hard and I shouldn't have to chase after them to get them to listen. They think it's a game too.

Does this seem typical for kids when mom is pregnant? I just worry about the next 3 months. So please, I'm desperate for any ideas!!!

yes I think it is typical They know a change is going on/coming up, they 'know' you are in a weakened state and take advantage. Now, of course I don't mean they are lying awake at night plotting against you, it's more innate, kwim?

The 2 yr olds get whiny and clingy. The 4 yr olds get whiny, clingy, verbal and defiant. And on and on.

Just keep to it gal. Stick to your guns. Sit them down for a talk, that's a good idea as well. Let them know you have noticed a change in their behavior. Ask them if they realize it. Talk about what kind of behavior you expect from them. Have dh have a talk with them as well about their behavior and respect for their mother.

I can't promise you this will stop and you'll have nothing to worry about the next few months. I can't promise you it won't get worse, because it very well may for a while. Or, it may drastically improve after a little talk with them.

Just keep hanging in there. Doing whatever preventative maintenance you can. Nipping behaviors as soon as possible. Positively encouraging them often.

You'll make it. They'll settle back down...eventually :~p

Agreed, once they find out you can't move as fast they take advantage of it! lol