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BlessedMommy
08-06-2009, 05:16 PM
Okay, I know that returns of fertility can vary from kid to kid but this is ridiculous! As my husband said, "How many kids do you need to nurse to keep your fertility away?" I was rudely booted out of my relaxing utopia of just watching for mucus and seeing none, when today I was greeted by mucus and BLOOD. Ouch. Micah's only 5 months old!

For those who don't know my history, I ovulated for the first time after having Hannah at 19 months postpartum, had a fully viable ovulation with an 11 day LP and then my first PPAF in April of 2008 after giving birth in August of 2006.

Looking back at things, it makes a little bit of logical sense. Hannah was almost glued to my body for the first 15 months of her life. She nursed 12+ times a day at 1 year old, and didn't really get into eating substantial quantities of solids until 15+ months. When I got pregnant with her brother, she was still nursing 8 or so times a day and nursing some at night.

Micah has actually slept through the night a couple of times and he is not a very demanding baby in general. He generally goes to sleep easily and sleeps for a few hours before waking up. He sleeps in a co-sleeper next to my bed rather than directly by me, so maybe that has influenced things too. Hannah went crazy on nursing after Micah was born but she has decreased that a lot.

So I guess my ovaries need a LOT of nursing stimulation to keep AF away. Time to break out the thermometer and NFP charts!

Ashlee
08-06-2009, 05:20 PM
Wow Ruth. That is crazy! So there was potential for another addition to the baby boom here eh? lol

savedbygrace
08-06-2009, 05:42 PM
Abby was demanding but AF came right away for me...

Have fun taking temps and charting :)

Ashlee
08-06-2009, 05:50 PM
Yeah, I was going to say Brooke was my most demanding and af arrived when she was 3 mos. Azalia has been my least demanding and af came a lot later this time. One difference is Brooke had a pacifier and Azalia didn't but Brooke still nursed way more often! Weird!

BlessedMommy
08-06-2009, 06:00 PM
Wow Ruth. That is crazy! So there was potential for another addition to the baby boom here eh? lol

*Ducks and runs* I'm definitely not going to be TTC and I imagine that DH will run in the other direction when I announce that I'm fertile, lol. I'm not in the market for nursing three kids at the moment, hehe.

Ashlee
08-06-2009, 06:13 PM
Hehehe. Come on Ruth.. drink some of that yummy water we've been drinking. There's plenty to go around! ;)

JRBL
08-06-2009, 06:30 PM
Ha~ You guys are soooooooo funny! My AF showed up at 3 months pp if I'm not mistaken~ Bleh... doesn't af just stink... I mean, seriously... oy...

And yeah, Ruth, the water is delicious... very refreshing! ;)

BlessedMommy
08-06-2009, 06:33 PM
C'mon gals, seriously? I'm going to have to take a board break if y'all try to keep on giving me water. ;)

JRBL
08-06-2009, 08:39 PM
Okay, okay, okay!!! No threats to leave! :P We'll be good! ::smacks hands::

~Tara~
08-07-2009, 10:03 AM
LOL Ruth!! I'm still politely declining the water too, but wow, yeah, I'd thirst to death in your position heehee

BlessedMommy
08-07-2009, 11:47 AM
LOL Ruth!! I'm still politely declining the water too, but wow, yeah, I'd thirst to death in your position heehee

Yeah, no kidding. We're going to have to be charting really carefully and strictly and probably abstaining a lot because the ramifications to our nursing relationship with having a 3rd child spaced 14 months apart from the 2nd are not really ones that I want to think about at the moment .

On the other hand, despite the fact that I have to chart, my actual fertility may not be back for a little while. This was only spotting and not full blown AF. But spotting means that there's some hormonal activity and thus I have to chart and follow the rules now.

krazee4jc
08-08-2009, 02:33 AM
I loved nursing...never saw AF the whole time :-D I nursed them for a year and a half..the baby was 2 though

BlessedMommy
08-26-2009, 08:44 AM
I loved nursing...never saw AF the whole time :-D I nursed them for a year and a half..the baby was 2 though

I know, isn't it great? What I had was just a spotting episode. It looks like actual AF is not showing up yet, ptl.

4HisGlory
09-02-2009, 10:32 PM
I am wondering the same thing! yesterday when I went to the bathroom I had MAJOR EW when I wiped, it is less today but still present. Sarah is my best nurser for sure and just under 3 months. Josh who I could barely nurse I didn't get ppaf until 7 months. I don't know if this is TRUE ew, especially since I have NEVER had such prevalent ew before. either way we are abstaining (even though dh doesn't care and just wants to bd[whatwacko]) i need to hunt for my thermometer!

BlessedMommy
09-03-2009, 10:11 PM
Yeah, it would be good to start a chart, for sure. Eggwhite is eggwhite, I would pay attention for sure!

My body is doing the stupid back and forth patches of mucus right now. I call my teacher tomorrow to help figure things out.