tripper
06-09-2009, 10:28 PM
So here I am again, Day 32 of this cycle with no sign of AF yet. Unfortunately, as much as we dtd on very good days this month, this happened last month and AF showed up after 34 days... sigh...
On a side note, dh agreed to get tested so last week I went and picked up the paperwork and containers from my new doctor! Yay us! lol
I just keep wondering how things will change/how I'll feel if dh *does* have a fertility issue. Or not. I mean, we have a great life in the bedroom and I don't think that will change (dh doesn't really care if he's got a problem or not), but I'm kinda looking forward to having AN answer, rather than not knowing, kwim?
Thanks for listening ladies!
Sarah
savedbygrace
06-09-2009, 11:21 PM
I understand completely.
it is easier to fix a mans fertility problems than a womans, so that's good.
Keep us posted Trip!
All you can do is wait and see, right? And as for dh agreeing to get tested, I think that is a big step for the two of you! If nothing else, you won't have to *wonder* anymore. [hug] Whatever the answer, we're here for you! [loveyou]
buttercup_97140
06-10-2009, 01:55 AM
I'm glad your Dh is willing to get tested. It's much easier for a man to give a sample than a woman! LOL
I hate to disagree with your Esther, but men's fertility issues are actually much harder to fix. With women they can give us hormones, surgery, put a fertilitzed egg in us, but with men, they have an area that if it's messed up, there's only so much you can do.
Not trying to step on toes, just want to make sure the right info is out there, KWIM?
This is why I was glad our fertility issues were "MY" issues. Really they are the couples....but like I said, I was more fixable.
Blessings and I hope they don't find anything!
Amber
plaid
06-10-2009, 01:54 PM
Will be thinking of you Tripper. :-D Praying for you this month and for your Dh's testing. [lovingsmiley]
tripper
06-10-2009, 07:45 PM
Why do I always do this? :chuckle: Af showed up today - no warning this time!
You know, I should just wait a day or two before posting my thoughts since she always seems to show up just after I post! lol
Oh well, off to test dh now I guess!
Will update when I can.
Sarah
Reneemomto5
06-10-2009, 08:27 PM
Aww sorry Sarah. But I so happy you found a new dr. and your hub's is getting tested. I will continue to pray for you both. The road has been long for you sweetie and I wish nothing but the best for you.
hugs