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School Is Right Around the Corner!

By Jodie Lynn

This year, many schools are implementing an early start in schools across the nation. Some kids will start school in early September, while others begin in early August!

With this new schedule, one of the hottest questions around is about getting off to a good start with adequate motivation for good grades.

Here are a few doable and unique ideas to get started on the right foot.

A night out

Reward with a special night out at a favorite restaurant of your child's choice. Write the names of suggested restaurants on slips of paper. Place in a bowl, shake, and let them each draw one out. The kids have to vote on the winner. We now have Planet Hollywood in our neighborhood, and of course everyone wanted to go ... before we knew it, Hard Rock Cafe also rolled into town. In our family, these are perfect examples of: "We'd like to go -- but the crowds and prices are a bit much!" So the prospect of dining at one or the other was a big incentive for the kids. In fact, they came to us with the names of the restaurants on slips of papers -- before report cards were due!

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The allure of the silver screen

Choose a movie to go see. Vote on a current movie or, if you have two or more children, let each child pick out one each week until each one has had a chance to go to the flick of their pick.

My children are responsible for their own homework. By the time your child is in the fifth grade, it's time to let them taste responsibility -- mistakes and all. But it's the reports and article assignments that they need encouragement on. To ensure a little enthusiasm and "get going" energy, I cut out promo pieces of various movies and hang them on the frig as a visible incentive. After the report is completed, the movie picture is taken down and the report is hung up in its place. Honest: We don't go to the movies very often, so this is really a special treat!

Toot their horn!

Make copies of report cards! Send out the copies to relatives: grandparents, cousins, friends, etc. Everyone loves to see what wonderful progress the kids are making and how successful they've become. For older kids, add in groovy phrases; i.e., "way too cool," "awesome grades," "de-bomb," etc. For younger children, paste or tape copy of report cards onto a piece of bright construction paper and place inside a frame. Buy the frames at the dollar stores to keep cost down. This is a grand self-motivator to the kids as each relative calls and talks with them about their accomplishments.

Let the proud kids call grandparents and other relatives as soon as possible so that they can personally tell significant others about their grades. This encourages them to want to make good grades for themselves -- and it promotes self-esteem.

Small signs of encouragement

Tell them they should be proud of themselves! Smile and give the "thumbs-up" sign! This combination will say more than a thousand words. While teaching school, you'd be surprised how many kids had no idea what I was doing when I displayed this small symbol of encouragement. During conference time, I tried to explain why we needed to get this back into our families. OK, you caught me ... yes -- I think kids get way too many "things" these days. From the bottom of my heart, I sincerely think parents need to think simple is better. The more we give -- the more they'll expect and want. When will it end? It won't! (Especially in the cash department.)

Eye on the future

With older kids or teens, you might want to explain how the colleges will be looking at these grades. Take a trip to a local college and introduce your kids to a counselor or specific professor who will tell them how the college interprets grades and why they are so important. One of my children is interested in writing. We allowed him to attend a weekend field trip to a local college in the journalism department, where he learned many new and exciting things. The professor encouraged the kids to ask questions, and of course they asked him about money. He told them a few stories and then ended with: "Writing and reporting is a very competitive area. That's why it's good to make extra efforts to ensure achieving the best grades possible." Need I say more?

The power of a hug

Give plenty of hugs -- teens included! Parents often incorrectly assume teens are getting too big for a hug, when in fact they may miss them.

After you go through this list, other special activities may become clear to you. Be creative about your own family ideas -- and be positive! Sing, clap, and yell for all of their hard work! You are building your child's pride while enhancing your own self-esteem. After all, when you see your parenting has helped your child grow in his abilities and self-confidence, you can't help but be proud: Positive thoughts generate positive actions.

© Jodie Lynn
Jodie Lynn is an award-winning internationally syndicated family/health columnist and radio personality. Her syndicated column Parent to Parent has been successful for over 10 years and appears in newspapers, magazines, newsletters and throughout the Internet. She is a regular contributor to several sites including,,,,, and Lynn has written four books and contributed to three others, one of which was on Oprah and has appeared on NBC in a three month parenting segment. Her latest books are "Mom CEO (Chief Everything Officer) - Having, Doing and Surviving It All!" (June 2006) and "Syndication Secrets - What No One Will Tell You!" (March 2006).
Please visit for details on her new radio talk show, Inside Parenting Success.


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